10 creative ways to tell your partner you’re pregnant

Finding out you’re pregnant is one of life’s big moments. It’s a wild, mind-blowing, out of body experience. It’s the biggest news of your life—news that you cannot wait to share with the partner who helped to create this tiny human.

We polled our Motherly mamas to see how they shared the big news with their significant others, and have received some fun and creative pregnancy announcement ideas on how to tell your husband you’re pregnant. Read on for creative ways to tell your husband, boyfriend or partner you’re pregnant.

Get creative with your pregnancy announcement ideas—here’s how to tell him “I’m pregnant!”

1. Say it with groceries

Buy your regular items at the grocery store, but throw in a pack of newborn diapers. Ask your partner for help unloading the bags when you get home, and let him take the diapers out. One mama said, “It was the last bag; my husband took them out and said “‘What are these?!’ Then we both cried!”

2. Let your partner find out first

One mama took the test and left it on the bathroom counter for her husband to discover. She didn’t look at the results at all (the patience!). She said, “I was fully expecting it to be negative, but surprise(!), I was pregnant! He didn’t even have to say anything—it was all over his face!”

Related: The new mama’s guide to pregnancy symptoms

3. Take multiple tests & show ’em off

One mama said, “I ran downstairs holding 6 positive tests and said ‘these say I’m pregnant but I totally don’t think it’s correct!'”

Related: What does a faint line on a pregnancy test mean?

4. Wake them up with the wonderful news

One mama said, “I woke up in the middle of the night and just KNEW I was pregnant—my period wasn’t even due yet. I took a pregnancy test and it was positive. I jumped on my sleeping husband and basically shoved the test into his face. I couldn’t wait!”

5. You’ve got (very special) mail

Buy a great book on being a dad like “The New Father: A Dad’s Guide to the First Year,” or your favorite Dr. Seuss book and stick it in the mailbox for your partner to find when they get home.

6. Write it down… and then hide the note

Write “I’m pregnant” on the note and then tuck it under his dinner plate or glass. Once he clears his plate from the table or lifts his glass, he’ll find your sweet message. Enjoy the look of surprise!

7. Give them a special present

We love these ‘Best Dad Ever’ T-shirts, and think your baby’s parent-to-be would, too. You’d have to wait a few days for this one to arrive though, so think about whether you can keep a secret that long or not.

8. Leave clues around the house

Buy a few pregnancy magazines, pacifiers, or baby name books and scatter them around the house. It may take a few minutes for your partner to put it all together, but when they do, it’ll be worth it.

Related: How to choose a baby name: A new parent’s guide

9. Cook a “baby-themed” dinner

We’re talking baby back ribs, baby potatoes, baby spinach—so much deliciousness. Once you’ve sat down for dinner, ask him if he can guess the theme of your menu.

Related: A nutritionist’s guide to the best foods for pregnancy

10. Say it with sweet treats

Buy or bake cookies, doughnuts, brownies, cupcakes—whatever your heart desires—and use gel icing to spell out HI BABY on the top. Watch them light up as you share your new baby news!

No matter how you choose to share the news, the moment you tell your partner you’re pregnant is one you’ll both cherish forever. Whether it’s a simple gesture or an elaborate surprise, the joy and excitement of welcoming a new life into the world is truly special. So go ahead, get creative, and enjoy this magical journey together!

How to Tell Your Husband You’re Pregnant

When is the best time to tell my husband I’m pregnant?

The best time to tell your husband you’re pregnant is when you both have a quiet moment together and can fully enjoy the news. Choose a time when you’re both relaxed and able to focus on each other without distractions. Many couples prefer to share the news in a private setting where they can have a meaningful conversation and fully express their emotions.

What are some creative ways to tell my husband I’m pregnant?

There are countless creative ways to share the exciting news with your husband! You could surprise him with a special gift, leave clues around the house for him to find, or incorporate the announcement into a fun activity or meal. Some couples choose to capture the moment on video or with a photoshoot to create lasting memories. The key is to choose a method that feels personal and meaningful to both of you.

How can I make the moment special when telling my husband I’m pregnant?

To make the moment extra special, consider incorporating elements that are meaningful to your relationship. Think about your husband’s interests, hobbies, and favorite things, and try to incorporate them into the announcement. You could plan a surprise date, create a custom gift, or write a heartfelt letter expressing your love and excitement. The most important thing is to show your husband how much he means to you and how thrilled you are to be starting this new chapter together.

Should I tell my husband I’m pregnant right away or wait?

The decision of when to tell your husband you’re pregnant is a personal one and may depend on your individual circumstances. Some couples choose to share the news right away, while others prefer to wait until they’ve had a chance to process the information themselves. Consider how you and your husband typically communicate and make decisions together, and choose a timing that feels right for both of you. Ultimately, the most important thing is to share the news in a way that feels comfortable and authentic to your relationship.

This post was originally published on Oct. 17, 2021. It has been updated.