
4. "Tell me about your picture."

These pics of a big brother and baby sister are too sweet.

Be confident in your abilities and instincts. I wish I had been more confident.

Sometimes, it's okay to talk to strangers.

Sometimes slowing down and lowering my expectations—both of myself and my son—makes all the difference. Sometimes simply acknowledging that we both need a little extra validation and a lot of extra grace is huge.

What if mindfulness was something you could do right now, even as you are reading these words?

I am with you—in the heaviness and the lightness. I just want you to know that. You're not alone, and I know I'm not either. And sometimes, that's what we need to know most of all.

The hug you give me after you walk through the door from work is something I wait for all day. It recharges me.

I'm not saying you won't challenge me or that I will be perfect, but I will have more patience and a lot more experience than I did with your siblings

5. Provide fewer toys, each with a clear place

"I set the boundary to focus separately on family and work. My inbox is never empty, but I make sure my computer and iPad are away so I'm not tempted to look at them."

Some feel anger, or fear but there is this other thing, too. Action.

Motherhood is all about conquering whatever mountains or obstacles are in the way of you—even if it happens to be a mountain of diapers. 😉

"I'm not running in spite of my daughter; I'm running because of my daughter," says Caitlin Clarkson Pereira.
Being your mother has shown me the immense power of women.

6. It has forced me to let go of some unnecessary control.

There is plenty of love to go around in our house. But when she runs around me to get to my husband when we come home from a date night, it stings.

Oh, what I wouldn't give for a tiny incident of a kindergartener packing a bag and stomping off in a tantrum.