
2. Get your hands back (and stop unwanted hands touching your baby)

Being okay with tears means to see them, feel them, pay attention to what they are here to teach us but eventually wipe them, smile again and take action where needed.

I was in awe! Look! She doesn't have to eat only from my breast! She is doing it! You're doing it together!

They are going to be there for you those first few days of postpartum life like no one else.

Now that I'm here for the second time, I have a different perspective on the fourth trimester.

I want to make the time to not only do things for myself (self-care and all), but I want to make others feel special, too.

I was told time and time again about the incredible love I would feel for this little baby I had yet to meet.

I see in her the same beauty that I see in every woman who has just done the work of bringing a child into the world.

This “new normal” is going to feel more “new” than “normal” for a little while—and that’s okay.

Pretending everything was okay wasn’t working for us.

There are pieces of you still burning brightly within me. However, there are parts of you I had to let go.

Being a mother is the most challenging, heartening, strengthening and humbling role I have ever had.

Nothing could really prepare me for seeing my naked body for the first time after delivering my beautiful baby.

It’s not just the pounds and inches shed that matter.

5. You have taught me it’s okay to not be ‘okay.’

19. Babies grunt a lot! And loudly. They make lots of tiny noises. And they are really adorable.

Yes, you're going to be tired—but you don't have to be THIS tired.