
1. Check your thoughts, and then challenge them

I hadn’t thought about how my homebody tendencies were keeping my son from building relationships and creating memories outside of our home, with other people.

And I realize that many of these moments will be "lasts" very soon, so I cherish them as if they are.

Because most days, I am not even gentle with myself.

"As moms raising fierce girls into the next generation of women leaders—leaders our world desperately needs—let’s celebrate the loudness and demands of our daughters that have so often been shunned."

Every moment isn’t filled with laughter. Sometimes our tears hold the most weight. But it is all of these moments that make us mothers.

Because of this internal and external pressure, I find myself comparing my baby to other kids.

Because these moments only happen once. And as quickly as they come, they are gone just as fast.

The racial climate of our society creates the responsibility for me to teach my children how the world perceives them: Black.

Because in becoming a mother, I am something and someone who I have never been before.

Sometimes, even the happy moments can bring us to tears because we are so invested in each phase of our child’s life.

Study shows that playing with others is vital, especially as kids emerge from the pandemic.

However much I would like to, I cannot stop time from slowly robbing us of these precious years. And when I look back, I want them to remind me of happiness—not hardship.

Your little ones have big feelings, and these books are full of simple self-soothing and coping skills they’ll use now and for years to come.

Max and Emme are Lopez's 14-year-old twins with ex-husband Marc Anthony.

"Labels should be used to help your child, not to define your child."

I am finally embracing the skin that I'm in, and it is all because of her—and she doesn't even know it yet.

Why the double standards for mothers and fathers? And who is calling out the costs to mothers that come with these double standards?

I knew this new journey would come with many bumps along the way, and that there’d be new lessons to be learned. But it’s exhausting, testing, challenging, and demanding in every way imaginable.