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I finally felt the enormity of what I had just lost.

5. "Who is the real mom?"

I did not have any problems breastfeeding because I didn't even attempt it. And my daughter is healthy, fed and growing. That's all that matters.

Time doesn't heal all wounds, but time did allow me the opportunity to reflect, acknowledge my pain and reach out for help in getting my life back together again.

Where was everyone now?

If we don't do anything about the guilt it can eat away at us.

Looking back, I wish I would have made my own self-care a priority as soon as my kids were born, rather than putting my needs on the back burner.

I still don't feel completely steady on my feet, but I'm on auto-pilot now. I get up. I change him. I feed him. I put him back in bed. Wash, rinse, repeat.

I could use it as a tool rather than as something that would hold me back.

My 3-year-old is eating peanut butter toast with banana for breakfast (his…

2. Start strong from day one—don't wait for permission to launch your full potential.

Each of these—children and work—can feel like a calling, we can feel devoted to both.

The minutes I spent on my kitchen floor that day playing with my sons didn't seem glamorous or spectacular in any way, and yet it is in these ordinary days where the best memories are made.

We are carrying the burden of society's shortcomings.