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It's all so isolating and it makes me feel like I'm constantly hiding something from someone.

Having my baby didn't create new psychological or relationship challenges as much as it amplified ones I had before. The exhaustion and stress of the baby put a spotlight on these and the band-aids I had in place to keep myself together.

Why does it have to be so incredibly complicated?

My personal experience has made me more aware of the fears and anxieties my patients may be carrying from previous pregnancies.

If you find that you've started to lose touch with your partner or your children, it may be time for a little connection reset.

I finally felt the enormity of what I had just lost.

5. "Who is the real mom?"

I did not have any problems breastfeeding because I didn't even attempt it. And my daughter is healthy, fed and growing. That's all that matters.

Time doesn't heal all wounds, but time did allow me the opportunity to reflect, acknowledge my pain and reach out for help in getting my life back together again.

Where was everyone now?

If we don't do anything about the guilt it can eat away at us.

Looking back, I wish I would have made my own self-care a priority as soon as my kids were born, rather than putting my needs on the back burner.

I still don't feel completely steady on my feet, but I'm on auto-pilot now. I get up. I change him. I feed him. I put him back in bed. Wash, rinse, repeat.

I could use it as a tool rather than as something that would hold me back.