Motherhood changes us. Celebrate the ups and downs with these honest, insightful essays about becoming—and being—a mom.

In the short term, I wanted the embarrassment and shame to stop for me. However, in the long run, I want my child to grow up using her voice and embracing all of her feelings, not repressing them.

I felt pulled in every direction.

I am a work in progress, just like everyone else.

I was surprised to be surprised by the emotional and physical pain of this transition.

The real magic isn’t in your perfection, but in your humanness.

It’s the miracle of my story, and the unlikelihood of my family, that stands out.

"I remembered a hack I learned during my time in the Navy: the power of the daily orders method, which is the primary method of communicating."

As parents, we are the keeper of childhood memories.

I am choosing to stray away from the ailing need for perfection that often plagues me—and many other moms.

I am sending you love as you unwrap medical diagnoses instead of gifts.

While I may not feel comfortable wearing the label of “woman”, I possess no greater title than “mother".

Blindsided by the effects of a natural disaster, my son walked away with an unshakeable fear of the unknown—and I’ve spent months working with therapists on how to help him feel safe in this world again.

“If you can develop a sense of the patterns that are more likely to trigger tantrums for your child, you can play a little defense!"

Being a formula-feeding mom is challenging in a society that heavily promotes, and sometimes even glamorizes, the breastfeeding journey.

I’m sure that some day she will grow out of it, but I hope it isn’t soon.

I paid my dues, and I’m glad my time is over.

Because what a gift for them to be able to see mom in their memories.

I only wish someone could have told me that we would find our place, we would be supported and my child would thrive.

Although I knew losing a baby would be emotional, I don’t think I realized just how many triggers I would encounter in the months that followed my pregnancy loss.