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Motherly Stories

Motherhood changes us. Celebrate the ups and downs with these honest, insightful essays about becoming—and being—a mom.

Teen boy gymnast practicing - when do we let our kids quit

When do we let our kids quit?

He loved gymnastics. Gymnastics was his life. His life was gymnastics.

mom baby and kids at home - i don't want to be a supermom

I don’t want to be your ‘supermom’

I didn’t know how heavy the load of parenting would be.

woman taking gifts out of a box- buy nothing gift

Buy Nothing: how my local Facebook group is saving the holiday season

My children can have a memorable Christmas without pushing us further into debt.

child's legs in a swimming pool - drowning is silent

The silence of drowning

Drowning is splashy and loud and frantic—isn’t it?

preemie baby in the nicu stay could have been avoided

My daughter spent 5 weeks in the NICU—and it could have been avoided

We need to speak critically about the existing systems that can fail women before, during and after pregnancy.

woman showing she is not a pinterest mom wearing oversized hoodie and wrapping gifts with baby

I’m not doing the ‘Pinterest mom’ thing this holiday season—and I refuse to feel guilty for it

My preferences for this holiday season may not appeal to the masses, but they will bring joy to my family—and that's all we need.

parenting twins - twin babies in mom's lap

4 things about mothering twins while your partner is deployed

Make yourself a hazelnut mocha and stare out your window instead of scrubbing the house spotless.

mom holding baby with two older kids new sibling relationships

4 things I wish I had known about new sibling relationships as a mom of 3

It’s natural to defer to your older child’s needs, but here’s a case for giving your new baby their own developmental attention.

pregnant woman at the doctor - i want a healthy baby

I just want a healthy baby—how I’m processing bad news in my third pregnancy

I’m writing this from the messy, raw, liminal space, where nothing is known and everything seems possible.

fred rogers in Mr Rogers' Neighborhood - look for the helpers

Finding hope amidst despair: Mr. Rogers’ wisdom for talking to children about conflict

When it comes to navigating conversations with our children about the Israel-Hamas conflict, here’s how Mr. Rogers got it right.

happy woman in hijab hugging daughter - Arab joy

As a children’s book author, I continue to celebrate Arab joy, love and hope in the midst of hardship

I didn’t want my kids to wait until they were in their 30s to see positive representations of themselves.

barbie at the gynecologist office Barbie's visit to the gynecologist

Barbie’s visit to the gynecologist was profound—in more ways than one

But women’s health is not just a “cultural moment.” Like other crucial issues, it should remain at the forefront.

mom snuggling with kids- parenting milestones

Parenting milestones that sneak past us

Watching him ride that bike, I felt like I was watching him pedal off to college. 

husband and wife by a christmas tree - 7 months postpartum and pregnant

A Christmas surprise: Embracing the unexpected

Amidst the Yuletide celebrations, was I due a surprise Christmas gift?

mom hugging her teen daughter - teenager pulling away

What to do if your teenager starts pulling away

I needed to adapt, to give her space when she needed it and to be there with open arms when she was ready to let me in.

mom hugging and kissing daughter outside dignity of risk snowplow parenting

I want my kids to be healthy not safe

I want to rush in and take away all their discomfort.

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