Home / Toddler My toddler inspired me to live life differently Kate Ames/Stocksy Toddlers can be inspiringâhere are just a few reasons why. By Alise Curran, M.Ed June 20, 2023 Kate Ames/Stocksy Rectangle If you ask around, I doubt people are seeking out life advice from their twenty month old, but I recently decided to take on some of my sonâs behaviors and it has been eye-opening. Almost two year olds are full of fun, laughter, wonder and often big emotions. Taking on my sonâs âyayâ attitude has changed the way I see the little things throughout my dayâall for the better. Here are some admirable actions that toddlers do naturally and how my own toddler inspired me to live life differently. 5 life lessons from toddlers 1. They show excitement My son is in the stage where every time something happens that he is excited about, he says âyayâ. This could be as simple as getting a snack handed to him, his favorite show on the TV or walking into the house after an outing. His little âyaysâ have made me appreciate the little things. Related: How parental affection shapes a childâs lifelong happiness 2. They get close Like many toddlers, my son is a big cuddler. He will make his way from one end of the couch to the other to snuggle up. He regularly has his hand on the shoulder of the person he is sitting next to and loves to hold hands. These displays of affection remind me how easy it is to show someone you love them and enjoy being in their company. 3. They celebrate wins My son is constantly learning and trying new things. When he succeeds at a task, he often excitedly shouts âgot it!â. He is proud of himself and he should be. Watching him celebrate the âlittle winsâ has prompted me to do the same! Related: 10 books for parenting toddlers that you need on your shelf for this big phase 4. They ask for what they want Throughout his day, he is constantly requesting toys, books, games, tv shows, food, etc. and this often leads him to getting exactly what he wants. He reminds me that people arenât mind readers and if you want something, often all you need to do is ask! 5. They appreciate a good meal When mealtime comes around, it is the only task my son is focusing on. He isnât multitasking, distracted or rushing through his meal. He savors each bite and will comment on it as heâs eating, saying âyummyâ and âmmmâ. Food is one of the most enjoyable parts of living, and should be treated as suchâa fact that my son seems to know already. Although he isnât quite two, my son is filled with sage practices that serve as good reminders for the adults in his life. These small shifts in mindset can lead to a big impactâit sure has for me and can for you, too. This story is a part of The Motherly Collective contributor network where we showcase the stories, experiences and advice from brands, writers and experts who want to share their perspective with our community. We believe that there is no single story of motherhood, and that every mother's journey is unique. By amplifying each mother's experience and offering expert-driven content, we can support, inform and inspire each other on this incredible journey. If you're interested in contributing to The Motherly Collective please click here. The latest Motherly Stories To the mama without a village: I see you Viral & Trending This viral TikTok captures what itâs like to parent through exhaustion and mental health struggles Life Can men really see the mess? Inside momsâ invisible labor at home Life 7 months pregnant on the campaign trail: How motherhood has changed the way I view politics