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While my brain wanted two, my heart longed for three.
How did your child react when you added a new baby to your family?
She seemed too small to be a "big" anything at that point. It felt like only yesterday that we celebrated her first birthday. It was hard to imagine her as anything but the littlest.
I want so badly to slow down, sing to you, dance with you in the kitchen, babble with you while I prepare dinner. But I am so distracted. So exhausted.
Now that I'm a tired mama with a baby on her hip and a toddler by her side I'm learning you can never say no too many times. No to extra stressors, no to unrealistic expectations, no to too many commitments on the family calendar.
The demands of motherhood laughed at my idea of picture-perfect motherhood. Every night I went to bed feeling like I had failed my children.
We are two and through.
Am I happy we had them so close in age? Absolutely! Are there tears? Oh yes.
The idea of "more," making more money, obtaining more things—and in my case, creating more life—is not necessarily the ticket to a happier life.
Having a second baby hit me like a ton of bricks.
Having kids close in age isn’t easy, but I love it.
Double the cuddles, kisses and cuteness.