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Grandparents & Extended Families

Extended families can be a joy—and a challenge. Motherly’s got you covered with advice and essays from other mamas who’ve been there.

family spending christmas morning together setting boundaries during the holidays

3 simple steps to make setting boundaries easy this holiday season

It's a wonderful time of year when we get to spend so much time with loved ones, but extended time with family isn’t always easy.

Updated Nov. 10, 2022
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The silver lining to raising children without grandparents

There are certainly times we feel an acute sense of absence, but what I have begun to realize are actually the unique benefits of our position.

Updated Jan. 17, 2023
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Grandma’s hilarious ‘grandkid ranking board’ is going viral

Just your average sweet old grandmother with a quality sense of humor 😂

Updated Oct. 28, 2022
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Here’s to the grandmothers who have shaped generations of women and mothers

In light of the death of Queen Elizabeth II, I am reminded of the passing of my own grandmother and the importance of grandmothers all across the globe.

Updated Nov. 29, 2022
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My strict parents became indulgent grandparents who spoil my kids rotten—and it’s great

The joy I feel knowing my two sons are being undeniably spoiled with love, food, gifts, candy—and everything else good this world has to offer—is one of such completeness and gratitude.

Updated Sep. 09, 2022
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I love seeing my child develop personal relationships with family members

And it’s just another thing that makes me proud to be a mother—witnessing him become his own person with his own relationships and the opportunity to create his own memories. 

Updated Nov. 30, 2022
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You have every right to set boundaries with your kids’ grandparents

Because a lot has changed since they’ve raised us—and a lot will continue to change.

Updated Jan. 06, 2023
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There’s a scientific reason Grandmas love their grandkids so much

Research shows how grandmas' brains react to the sight of their grandkids.

Updated Dec. 22, 2022
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It’s science: Babysitting your grandkids helps you live longer

Science shows grandparents who watch their grandchildren add an average of five years to their lives.

Updated Aug. 26, 2022
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29 Mother’s Day gifts for grandma that aren’t flowers

These thoughtful gifts will last a whole lot longer!

Updated Mar. 27, 2024

To all the grandparents—thank you

To all the grandparents—the ones we see everyday and the ones we…

Updated May. 03, 2023
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I love you mom, but I’m ignoring your advice about my kids

While it's true that there is value in home remedies and anecdotal advice, here's the thing: We must also give ourselves the freedom to ignore advice. It's okay not to do something "just because your mom did it."

Updated May. 18, 2023
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My mother is still waiting to hold her first grandchild

I became a mom without my mom by my side—something I wasn't prepared for and something I will never get back.

Updated Jan. 27, 2022
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Expert strategies for dealing with the loss of a grandparent, age by age

All too many children may be facing the loss of a loved one this year. Here's how to help them through it.

Updated Feb. 03, 2022
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