Home / News / Viral & Trending Teacher shares easy hack to help little ones learn how to hold a pencil @preschoolvibes/TikTok "Say goodbye to the fist grip!" By Abi Berwager Schreier September 11, 2023 @preschoolvibes/TikTok Rectangle With parenting, thereâs almost always an âAha!â moment every single day. For some of us, itâs a âDuhâ moment, or a âWhy didnât I think of that?â moment. Amanda Collins over on her TikTok @preschoolvibes shared a âteacher hackâ for grownups struggling with their children to get them to not hold their crayons like a tree branch. And it was definitely a âWhy didnât I think of that?â moment. In this 15 second video, minds are blown with her simple instructions for how to help your kids practice those fine motor skills and learn how to hold a crayonâwhich in turn can help build those muscles to hold a pencil and write their names. Within seconds of the TikTok video starting, Collins answers a followerâs question: âDo you have any tips for teaching my 4 year old how to hold a pencil? We are struggling currently.â @preschoolvibes Replying to @Amanda Collins âď¸ Teacher Hack Alert! âď¸ Struggling with kids holding their crayons like they’re grabbing a tree branch? Break that crayon in half! đď¸ A smaller piece forces the tripod grasp, which is essential for good handwriting skills! Say goodbye to the fist grip. đ¤ Try it and watch the magic happen! #PreschoolVibes #TeacherLife #TeacherHacks #PencilGrip #PreschoolTeacher ⏠original sound – PreschoolVibes Collins snaps a crayon in halfâŚjust snaps it in half! All thatâs left is a nub with the point of the crayon. Related: 10 Montessori-inspired ways to promote your childâs fine motor skills through art Then Collins says, âThatâs right! You just need a little piece, because guess what? When children are writing, they canât hold it like a fist grip, they canât hold it underhand, theyâre going to have to hold it the correct way if they only have a little piece.â Genius, right? The crayon is now too small for kids to hold it any other way but the correct way. The official term for what kids need to accomplish before they can start writing is called âmotoric separation of the hand,â according to The OT Toolbox website. Other ways to build those muscles for that âmotoric separationâ is to practice fine motor play as they get older and start pincer grasp activities from a young age. Pincer grasp practice can be as simple as taking a bunch of little tissue paper squares and having your child fill up an empty plastic bottle with them, using wooden clothespins to pick up mini cotton balls, or even just peeling tape, per the website. Related: Donât let your preschoolers forget how to play These activities will build up the muscles needed for writing in their future academic careers. When can you start? Parents can practice the tripod grasp with their children as early as 4 to 6 months old, and by age 4, your child may be ready to practice holding a pencil, crayon or marker, using the âdynamic tripod grasp,â AKA the way most adults hold a pencil. If theyâre old enough to start writing and theyâre still using their entire fist, it may be time to implement Collinsâ genius crayon-breaking tip. Happy writing and crayon breaking! The latest Child Learn & Play A love letter to children’s books Child Learn & Play Here’s how to help kids find their ’emotional courage’ Child Learn & Play Finally! This chic, kid-friendly routine builder helped reduce my familyâs daily friction News Picky eating in kids is mostly due to genetics, study says