Home / News / Viral & Trending This mom explains why she refuses to take on a second job despite inflation costs Shay/TikTok â$100,000 a year is the new $50,000 a year.â By Arielle Tschinkel March 14, 2024 Shay/TikTok Rectangle With around 40% of Americans currently struggling to make ends meet due to ongoing post-pandemic inflation, stagnant wages, and continual rising costs, you donât need us to tell you that feeding a family feels next to impossible these days. One TikTok mom is explaining why she refuses to take on a second job despite how expensive everything is, and itâll make you feel so seen if you, too, are feeling the financial strain in the past few years. And as part of the ongoing loud budgeting movement, we’re here for it. Related: This is why youâre tired: Motherhood is equivalent to working 2.5 jobs, study says TikToker Shay captioned the viral clip: â$100,000 a year is the new $50,000 a year.â In the clip, she began, âI donât know who needs to hear this, but I felt compelled to say it. Things out here are getting expensive. I see that. Grapes, $7. Eggs, $5. Homes, half a million dollars. Cars, 40 grand used. It could be a Mazda, they donât care.â âBut one thing I do wanna say is: I donât give a darn how expensive it gets, Iâm not working the second job,â she said. âYâall ainât about to have me out here working twice, okay. Iâm good until about 5:30. 5:31, legs start buckling, knees going. 6:00, vision blurry, canât find my car, okay. I canât work two jobs, so whoever needs to fix it, please fix it, because itâs to the point now where working 40 hours a week ainât enough, but Iâm gonna make it enough.â @shayjo21 $100,000 a year is the new $50,000 a year#fixitjesus ⏠second job – Shay Humor aside, Shay presents an inherently valid point: American wages have been far too low for far too long, and every worker, no matter which industry or role they are in, deserves to earn a living wage. A wage that allows them to meet their basic needs for food, shelter, transportation, and the like, while also providing for their families, too. People in the comments section of Shayâs post agreed unanimously, sharing their thoughts. âA second job shouldnât even have to cross our minds,â wrote one person. âWe shouldnât have to work 2-3 jobs to be able to afford life for ONE person,â added another. âTwo jobs is for two people,â agreed yet another. Plenty of parents agreed that they have retooled their budget so they can spend more time with their kids, but that theyâre still exhausted working so much and still coming home to all the housework they left behind for the day. Thatâs without mentioning the astronomical cost of childcare needed to, you know, care for your kids while youâre working all those hours. âSingle mom w two babies and no support system a second job isnât even an option đâ wrote one user. Related: 6 lies I believed about going from stay-at-home to working mom Itâs long past time that lawmakers step in and provide workers the wages, benefits, and protections they deserve to actually support themselves and their families. As Shay pleaded: âplease fix it,â because it honestly feels like itâs broken on just about every level imaginable right now. A version of this story was originally published on Nov. 11, 2023. It has been updated. The latest Career & Money 1.2 million parents forced to miss work every month because affordable childcare isn’t available Work & Motherhood Catch-22: No job, no childcare; no childcare, no job Motherly Stories How moms and daughters can close the investing gender gap together Parental Leave Almost 50% of parents heading back to work after parental leave found it harder than expected, survey finds