Home / News Parents’ heartfelt ‘Just a Mom’ song goes viral—and moms everywhere feel seen @audreyandnathan via Instagram The song, which has racked up over 2.2 million views, highlights the emotional (and often invisible) load of parenting. By Elizabeth Tenety December 17, 2024 @audreyandnathan via Instagram Rectangle Inside this article “I’m Just a Mom” by Audrey & Nathan ‘Just a Mom’ hits a chord More than “just a mom” Sharing the mental load If you’ve ever uttered the phrase “I’m just a mom”—while simultaneously crushing a to-do list that rivals a Fortune 500 CEO’s—then Audrey & Nathan’s new viral song will hit you right in the feels. The TikTok songwriting duo, childhood sweethearts turned late-night lyricists, have penned an anthem that’s turning the quiet sacrifices of motherhood into a moment of raw, relatable beauty. The song, which has racked up over 2.2 million views, highlights the emotional (and often invisible) load of parenting—all the tasks, the love, and the exhaustion that come with raising a tiny human while feeling like you’ve somehow lost a bit of yourself. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Audrey & Nathan (@audreyandnathan) The lyrics? Prepare to tear up and text this to every mom friend you know. “I’m Just a Mom” by Audrey & Nathan I filled the dishwasher then Got the baby out of bed I made the breakfast and I got us dressed before we left I went on a walk downtown I’ve been worried about my looks She fell asleep when we got home I organized all of her books It’s just another day On this little island that we made I set the chicken out to make something Everyone will hate I make appointments and I Find the remote that she misplaced I keep the baby in the right sized clothes And shoes to make her brave I text the family back and Take all the pictures on my own I plan the birthdays and I know what everybody wants I fed the baby every night for 13 months To make her strong But when someone asks me about me “I’m just a mom.” I’m just a mom. ‘Just a Mom’ hits a chord Audrey & Nathan’s lyrics resonate because they so perfectly capture the quiet, unseen work of motherhood. From coordinating appointments to remembering everyone’s shoe sizes, moms are often the architects of their family’s lives. Yet, when asked about themselves? Many default to: “I’m just a mom.” The song gently asks: Why do we minimize something so massive? And why does it often take a viral TikTok for the world to notice? Related: “We’re pregnant in our 40s!”: Viral pregnancy announcement sparks conversation about motherhood later in life More than “just a mom” Being “just a mom” means being the planner, the caretaker, the fixer, the finder, the photographer, the worrier, and the biggest cheerleader all rolled into one. It’s holding everyone else’s needs while often putting your own on pause. It’s feeding a baby for 13 months, cleaning up dishes no one noticed, and organizing books during nap time—while wondering when you’ll get a moment to breathe. It’s the beautiful, critical work of building up the next generation, only to feel like you are invisible and unimportant to the ‘outside’ world. For many, this song is a reminder: what moms do matters. It’s not “just” anything. It’s everything. Sharing the mental load The good news? Conversations around the mental load of motherhood—the constant, often invisible labor that keeps a family running—are becoming louder. More partners are stepping up. More families are finding tools, like shared calendars and systems to lighten the load. But viral moments like this one also remind us that recognition matters. Moms shouldn’t have to go viral to hear that their work is seen. Audrey & Nathan have given us more than a song—they’ve given moms permission to feel seen, validated, and maybe even understood. So send that video to someone who needs to see it. And if you’ve ever said, “I’m just a mom,” take a moment today to realize that “just” doesn’t belong in that sentence. You’re raising humans, building lives, and holding your family—and yes, society—all together. And that? That’s everything. Related: The invisible labor that’s breaking moms: How unequal mental load impacts mental health Inside this article “I’m Just a Mom” by Audrey & Nathan ‘Just a Mom’ hits a chord More than “just a mom” Sharing the mental load The latest News Teen vacation or invoice surprise? Why we need to talk about family trip etiquette News Why pregnant lawmakers deserve remote voting News Mom cries at what special needs toddler brings home from daycare—‘Not okay’ News Grandma gave toddler’s first haircut without asking—how would you handle it?