Viral TikTok shows the ultimate grandparents stepping in—and why moms deserve the break

Imagine: A child-safe home stacked with all the toys and accessories your kids need for a great time, doting grandparents ready to do the work, and a whole day completely to yourself? A girl can dream, can’t she?

@theplatsman5 We’re so lucky to have Gigi and Poppy 🥹 #mom #moms #momsoftiktok #momlife #sahm #toddler #toddlersoftiktok #toddlermom #triplets #tripletsoftiktok #boymom ♬ original sound – Julia Platsman

If this sounds like a dream, a viral TikTok video of a triplet mom dropping her kids off at their grandparents’ house for her weekly break has struck a chord online, racking up nearly 2 million views. In the clip, Julia Platsman shares how her parents go above and beyond to care for their three young grandsons, turning their home into a fully equipped childcare haven—complete with a themed art project, fresh-made waffles, and a basement play zone packed with everything from a train table to a literal ball pit.

“I have the next five hours to myself,” Julia says in the video before taking her dog for a walk, treating herself to an almond croissant, getting a pedicure, and enjoying a quiet lunch—all while her triplets are happily entertained by their doting grandparents.

The internet had thoughts, with many viewers praising her parents for their dedication and support.

• @Angry.aries96: “I’m a triplet and my grandparents were the same, the bond I still have with them is unbreakable 💖”
• @JessieJade: “These are the types of grandparents that deserve grandchildren 😌”
• @Angelina: “How amazing to have such wonderful grandparents ❤️”
• @Emma-Leigh: “Okay but grandma is onto something with tp and garbage bag! 😂❤️”
• @Marie-Claude Philion: “Grand parents like that are EVERYTHING”

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The science backs it up: Grandparent support is a game-changer

While Julia’s parents are being hailed as the ultimate grandparents, research shows they’re doing more than just giving their daughter a break—they’re significantly supporting her mental health. Studies have found that maternal stress decreases when grandmothers are actively involved in childcare, and that kind of support is linked to lower rates of postpartum depression and better overall well-being for moms. In one study, mothers who had reliable help from their own parents reported feeling more confident in their parenting and experienced lower stress levels.

Put simply: moms aren’t meant to do it all alone. The idea that one woman should be able to raise children, maintain a household, and balance work without outside support is both unrealistic and harmful. Historically, child-rearing has always been a communal effort, and modern research confirms that spreading the load makes parenting more sustainable.

Related: Study shows that supportive grandparents can benefit moms’ mental health

Every mom deserves a break

Julia’s weekly reset isn’t just about self-care—it’s about the sustainability of motherhood. And while her parents provide an incredible support system, the reality is that not every mom has access to family help. In a culture that often glorifies “doing it all,” stories like Julia’s serve as a reminder that mothers need—and deserve—time off. Whether that comes from family, friends, community programs, or better policies around childcare, every mom should have the opportunity to rest, recharge, and reclaim a few hours for herself.

Because at the end of the day, raising kids is a team effort—and when moms get the support they need, everyone benefits.