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Motherly acquired Motherhood Understood, continuing our mission of providing a woman-centered and supportive community for mothers. We are leaning into telling personal essays from mothers as a way that we learn, connect and feel less alone. Centered on the perspectives of maternal mental health, these stories are intended to help moms feel validated and seen.
"Now there were people in my life appreciating me for my brain and my hard work and not because I was the lady with access to the fruit snacks and the TV remote."
Prenatal depression is real. Postpartum depression is real.
"I would go to empty out the dishwasher and by the time I'd reach the cabinet with the clean plate, I'd be bawling."
"I’m not free from anxiety and depression yet."
"My husband did the majority of the childcare and while it killed me to see the exhaustion and worry in his eyes, I just didn’t care enough to help."
"I had to do all of these things because shortly after the birth, my husband vanished."
"I stopped eating. I cried. I had a constant pit of anxiety that sat in my stomach. The only time it would go away was when I was asleep."
"I love my baby…I think... I don’t have all this motherhood stuff figured out yet..."
"I went to my room and looked at my empty bed, and the empty bassinet and realized this was the first time I had been alone since my delivery. This isn’t how it was supposed to be, and so the first breakdown happened."
"This hasn’t gone the way I expected it to. But she makes every second worth it."
"My anxiety levels were already high, but not knowing what could happen was making it worse."
"Coronavirus did something for me that it probably didn’t do for a lot of other mothers. It helped."