Home / Life / Motherly Stories 6 things parents can do in the aftermath of a school shooting @nastyatkachenko19/Twenty20 In our power as parents and as citizens of this country, there is action we can take even when it feels helpless. By Diva Anwari May 25, 2022 @nastyatkachenko19/Twenty20 Rectangle Inside this article Reach out to your state senator Call or email your child's teachers to thank them Educate yourself Talk to your children Be kind to yourself Connect There are days the world feels a little heavier. When your child doesn’t quite understand what’s happening and as their parent you don’t know whether to tell them about the scary parts of life or let their blissful ignorance last a little while longer. The aftermath of a school shooting is one of those days. Do we tell our children about the heartbreaking news story of yet another school shooting? Do we go over active shooter drills while they’re eating cereal in the morning? How many times can we squeeze in “I love you” in the car ride before drop-off? A lot of these decisions revolve around doing what’s best for your family. Horrific school shootings are a reality of the world we’re living in—the world we are raising our children in. But even amidst the fog of sadness, anger and frustration, there is something we can do. In our power as parents and as citizens of this country, there is action we can take even when it feels helpless. Here are 6 things parents can do in the aftermath of a school shooting. 1. Reach out to your state senator In times like these, we may be feeling disillusioned by our government. But as our voices in Washington, it’s important to reach out to your representative and make sure they understand what we’re feeling. You can call, email, or write a letter to your state senator urging them to vote on gun reform. You can also get in touch with your congressman about gun control. 2. Call or email your child’s teachers to thank them Your child’s teachers still have to show up for work despite their complicated feelings with their job. Thank the teachers for being there for your children. Ask if there’s anything you can do to support them. 3. Educate yourself The AAP supports gun control. Firearms disproportionately affect our children. Gun violence is an epidemic in America and here’s what the AAP has to say about it: “We must implement common-sense solutions that have been proven to reduce these injuries and deaths.” 4. Talk to your children If it’s the right choice for your family to speak to your kids about the school shooting, here is a resource guide. 5. Be kind to yourself If you’re feeling overwhelmed, you’re not alone. Try these breathing exercises. 6. Connect In the aftermath of a horrific tragedy, we all need a little extra love. Hug your kids and reach out to your friends and community for support. If posting on social media is an outlet for your emotions then post and engage in conversations help you work through your feelings. Related Stories Viral & Trending This mom banned her in-laws from babysitting because of gun safety Parenting How to talk about 9/11—and other scary world events—with your kids Viral & Trending Mom of Uvalde survivor: ‘I do not want my son to go to school in America anymore’ Inside this article Reach out to your state senator Call or email your child's teachers to thank them Educate yourself Talk to your children Be kind to yourself Connect The latest Toddler This toddler’s ‘snack tummy’ logic has TikTok—and moms—losing it Baby H5 bird flu outbreak: What families need to know to stay safe News New study reveals what parents need to know about the link between air pollution and autism It's Science You started as an egg inside your grandmother—here’s the mind-blowing science behind this generational bond