Home / Life / Motherly Stories I am worried about—and inspired by—my friends in Ukraine instagram.com/ashleighdenee_writer/ I love you so much, Ukraine, and I admire your love and sacrifice. America stands with you, we are learning from you, and I trust that we will unify through your example. By Ashleigh Beaver March 4, 2022 instagram.com/ashleighdenee_writer/ Rectangle My heart cannot find rest tonight. As a missionary, I spent time in Ukraine. I loved the people, the beauty of the country. I made many friends and many memories there. I worry about my friends in Ukraine; I wish I could do more. Tonight I heard my daughter stirring in her sleep. I went in to comfort her and lay beside her. I was able to hold her, kiss her, assure her that she was safe. She fell asleep in my arms to the sound of rain on her noisemaker. I thought about the children in Ukraine falling asleep to the sounds of war. I thought about the mother trying to assure her children that they were safe in her arms, knowing that she did not know what may be ahead for her family. I thought about the fathers and men sacrificing their lives to stand up for their country even though it came at great sacrifice, being separated from their family. instagram.com/ashleighdenee_writer/ I am angry, I am sad—but when I heard from my friends in Ukraine, they simply said, “God has His hands on Ukraine.” I love you so much, Ukraine, and I admire your love and sacrifice. I’m amazed by their faith, their bravery, their love. I have only come to love Ukraine more because they challenged me to stand up for what is right no matter the sacrifice, to trust God amid war and fear, and to love our enemies. My home is open; I am seeking out places that I can donate, I am praying. We are not helpless; every little bit helps. I love you so much, Ukraine, and I admire your love and sacrifice. America stands with you, we are learning from you, and I trust that we will unify through your example. Related Stories News How what’s happening in Ukraine has changed my perspective on motherhood News How you can support Ukraine right now Life As I tuck my babies in at night, I’m thinking of moms in Ukraine The latest Life 7 months pregnant on the campaign trail: How motherhood has changed the way I view politics Style Zooey Deschanel’s tips on how to get holiday party-ready (without putting your finger through your tights while your kids are yelling for dinner) Motherly Stories What is the ‘gratitude trap’? How gratitude can keep us stuck Getting Pregnant What to know about using supplements for fertility—and when to start taking them in preconception