40 thoughtful Valentine’s day gifts for him

Even if those flames feel more like embers some days, there’s likely no one you’d rather be in the trenches with. This thoughtful wooden matchbox can be personalized with both of your initials so you can literally keep the flame burning for years to come.

Beloved by barbers and perfected all the way back in 1887, Claus Porto is sophisticated without being fussy–just like him. Upgrade his simple shower routine with Musgo Real 1887 soap on a rope which features notes of sandalwood and pachouli that are fresh without overpowering.

Is there a special place that holds his heart? Remind him of it every time he mixes up his favorite cocktail! This set of two rocks glasses can be etched with a map of anywhere in the world along with a custom message along the side.

Meet the most versatile blanket ever. Seriously. It’s the perfect companion for everything—from lounging on the couch to camping (or glamping) in any season. (Think of it like your love in blanket form.) Like his favorite puffer coat it’s warm and water-resistant and even features a convenient cape clip to wear it as a cloak while sipping coffee by the fire. Even though it’s big enough for two to snuggle under, it also conveniently packs down into the included stuff sack for easy transport. There’s a ton of incredible prints to choose from too! (Prices start at $99)

Even if he pretends he’s not interested in skincare, do him a solid. The Ursa Major Golden Hour Recovery Cream is a guy-friendly one-stop shop that moisturizes and protects and even reduces wrinkles. (You don’t have to tell him that part).

Maybe it’s the company I keep, but I’ve heard from more than a few men that no beer tastes better than a shower beer. No, I don’t understand it, but I don’t understand a lot of things about dudes. Anyway, to love is to appreciate one’s quirks–and occasionally indulge them. Even if that means gifting them a cup holder for the shower.

If he’s more mocktail, less Manhattan these days, the bitter, herby and oh-so-sophisticated apertifs from Ghia are sure to satisfy. Berry, the follow up to their super popular Original Apertif, lends a tart but fruity flavor that’s hardly trying to impersonate–it’s a sensory experience all its own. Use it as a mixer or simply add it to plain seltzer for an elevated alcohol-free way to unwind.

There’s no reason to ration the good stuff when you’ve got a literal bucketful of it. The foodie-beloved Maldon smoked sea salt is perfect for the at-home chef who wants to make every meal extra special.

From the legendary Rick Rubin, this book is a must-have for creatives, thinkers and meaning seekers. Even if he doesn’t think of himself as a creator, these thought-provoking pages might illuminate the fact that “creating” is all life really is, isn’t it?

Honor his inner Boy Scout with the classic Opinel No. 8 Folding Knife. The super sharp stainless steel knife is bound to come in handy whether he’s fishing, camping or just puttering around the house. Best of all, it’s designed to last a lifetime, so consider it an heirloom in the making!

If the same old, same old just isn’t doing it for you anymore, kick your time together up a notch with this fun couples edition scrapbook. On each page you’ll find creative and totally unforgettable date night ideas along with a place to record your experience. In fifty years, how fun will it be to look back on your attempts at baking a pie blindfolded?

This is not just a gift for him, it’s also a gift for you! (Sneaky. I like it.) Give him one notebook and keep the other for yourself. The gratitude prompts give you a place to capture all the small (and big!) appreciations you have for one another each day over the course of 20 weeks. And hey, go easy on yourselves. Wedded bliss ain’t easy. If some of those days are filled in with things like “you only left SIX dishes in the sink today,” we still call that a win.

At Valentine’s Day, there’s nothing better than gifting something that’s designed to last–just like your love, right?😍 May I suggest a pair of impressively well-crafted boots from Grant Stone. Not only are they made with the highest-quality materials and hardware, they’re also designed to get better with age. The Diesel Boot is a great pick for its ability to dress up for work or date night or just kick it throughout the weekend.

From their dreamy sheet sets to their fluffy towels, you can’t go wrong with Boll & Branch. But if you want to give him something that’s all his own to luxuriate in, their Men’s Plush Robe is the way to go. Every time he steps out of the shower he’ll wrap himself in that spa-like goodness and wonder how he ever got so lucky.

Want to spice things up this Valentine’s Day? (In the literal sense, of course.) Blow his hot sauce loving mind with this trio from Fly By Jing. Inspired by the flavors of Jing founder’s favorite Chengdu restaurants, these spicy-but-addicting Sichuan sauces are made to electrify your tastebuds. Drizzle the Sichuan Chili Crisp over everything from chicken wings to pumpkin soup. Punch up stir frys with the sweet and tangy Zhong Sauce and add and instant oh-la-la to practically anything with the Mala Spice Mix. Clear permanent space on the pantry shelves because this trio is about to become a staple.

Those early morning wake ups call for an invigorating shower experience–and the Exfoliating Peppermint Soap Brick from Flamingo Estates definitely delivers. Packed with energizing Organic Peppermint, exfoliating Poppy Seeds and Big Sur Sea Salt, and French Blue Clay to draw out impurities, it’s a cleanser, body polish and aromatherapy experience all in one. Just be warned he’ll never want to go back to whatever crusty bar he’s been lathering up with.

Dads who love to cook also love to have a secret ingredient, don’t they? Luckily the aromatic and just-spicy-enough Algae Cooking Club Gochugaru Chili Oil can work that kind of magic. The complex and addicting aromatic oil (which happens to be the brainchild of Chef Daniel Humm of NYC’s Eleven Madison Park) features a range of spices that perfectly complement everything from scrambled eggs to homemade pizza. (Price is for two bottles.)

With its oversize design and far infared heat technology, this is the body wrap for guys who work hard and relax hard. It’s great for soothing sore muscles or helping with inflammation and as a bonus it makes a great bed warmer on those chilly nights.

If he’s started swapping those IPAs for something a little…chiller, hook him up with Wims. The perfectly proportioned (and portable) packets contain a blend of 4mg THC and 4mg CBD which blend seamlessly into a mocktail or simple glass of seltzer. It’s a low-dose sparkly little buzz without the hangover. A win-win! (Or a Wim-win? Sorry. Dad joke.)

Perfect for the whiskey-loving adventurer, this handsome leather flask can be customized with his initials and a topographic map of any mountain he holds near and dear.

From the golf course to the elementary school soccer field, a tough umbrella can be a total lifesaver. The ones that turn inside out with a strong gust? Not so much. This bad boy is designed to withstand 55 mph winds and is guaranteed to make Al Roker jealous.

Perhaps the most thoughtful keychain a dad could have, this leather beauty nests the photo of your choice safely inside. It’s printed on high-quality stainless steel, making it a durable heirloom he’ll treasure for decades.

If sneakers and slippers had a baby, it would look like the Teva ReEmber. The inside is soft and cozy while the quilted upper is treated with TevaRAPID RESIST protective coating to keep them dry even in damp grass. Too much work to tug them on? No problem. The heel collapses down for quick dashes out of the house.

Keep him warm and toasty whether he’s building snow forts with the kiddos or cruising down the mountain with the best base layer on the market. Made from breathable 100% Merino wool (that’s impressively soft against the skin), the 250 Base Layer Crew from Smartwool is made to add warmth without bulk. And even though it’s a base, we think it looks pretty smart all on its own.

Display his watch collection like the works of art they are! This minimalist wooden stand is a gorgeous addition to the top of his dresser and can be personalized with any phrase or name you’d like. Need suggestions?

“We love you ’til the end of time.”

“Dad time is the best time.”

“You’re late again.” (Keepin’ it real.)

You love him, but maybe don’t love helping locate his keys every morning. Pressure’s off! Apple AirTag helps keep track of all the important things. One-tap set up pairs them with his iPhone or iPad so he can track their whereabouts no matter where they wander off to. There’s also a ton of cool accessories designed to accommodate them, like wallets, airpod cases and keychains.

Sweet Valentine’s day gifts are great, but sometimes spicy is better. For example, the Band from Maude. Unlike the versions you may or may not have sheepishly thrown in your basket at CVS, this one actually delivers. (And looks far more sophisticated. Almost sculptural!) It’s designed to make the ride more exciting for both of you with a fit that heightens things for him and vibrations that hit right where you want them. Five easy to change speeds ensure you may even arrange some time with it solo. To loosely quote the Queen Beyonce herself, “If you like it you should put a ring on it.”

Who says cards have to be a snooze fest? The fun and colorful pop up cards from Love Pop feature well-known characters and dad-approved themes to send well wishes he’ll keep (and display!) forever.

Remember when you all were wild and crazy and stayed up all night partying and getting your groove on? Now you’ve got kids and well, there’s excitement in things like finding the just the right pillow. #facts

No matter his sleep style, the dreamy Original Adjustable Pillow from Coop is the gift he never knew he needed. It’s cleverly designed so that it can be customized exactly to one’s preferences with a blend of cross-cut memory foam and microfiber fill which can be added or removed to make it more or less firm. Five years in, ours are still going strong!

With its self-sharpening steel blades, impressive collection of attachments and an integrated vacuum system that corrals the mess, this highly-rated all-in-one trimmer is a favorite among beard-havers and bathroom-sharers alike.

Sunday pancakes call for something that looks profesh. The hard-working chef’s aprons from Tilit NYC covers enough clothing to keep it from getting stained, plus it has deep enough pockets that can hold a dishtowel or a phone. Opt to personalize it with his name or initials to make it extra special. What’s more, the small NYC-based brand sources and manufactures everything right in the heart of the city.

Treat your dude to an at-home spa sesh (and maybe even convince him that skincare isn’t only for the ladies) with these man-friendly masks from Jaxon Lane. The larger size is designed to fit his mug and the hydrogel material works better against beards than the more papery sheet masks out there.

Woe is the fella who still hangs a car wash vending machine tree freshener from their rearview mirror. Step his game up with the sophisticated wooden car fresheners from Drift. The starter set comes with a metal clip that slides on to the car visor and a scented bar with a magnet on the back. Choose from a variety of elevated (and natural!) scents like amber, teak and coffee that linger for about a month.

Nothing makes a desk look happier than a plant. Except perhaps one with heart-shaped leaves that reminds him you’re thinking of him. And he doesn’t need a green thumb to keep it alive! After all, philodendrons are pretty forgiving. Another parallel? Maybe.

For the coffee aficionado who takes his joe on the go, the Fellow Carter Move Mug is key. It’s the only travel mug that gives you the full coffee-drinking experience with all the aromas and tastes without compromise. The unique design features a snap-in splash guard to keep it from making mess while the inside ceramic coating keeps it hot without that dreaded metallic taste of stainless steel. And if you really want to make it special, you can personalize it with their initials or a favorite phrase like “I made coffee for you.”

As a 5′ 2″ woman, I have to admit I never really thought about the throw blanket struggles tall people suffer from. However, I do take snuggling VERY seriously, so when I learned about Big Blanket Co. they had all of my attention. At 10 x 10 their best-selling signature blankets are 50% bigger than a king size quilt–a must-have for movie night but double as the ultimate fort builder. (Because you’re never too old for that.)