30+ Valentine’s Day gifts that are perfect for your Galentine (or yourself, of course)

From pickup to pickleball, this cozy textured pullover from Dudley Stephens wears like a sweatshirt but looks so much more chic. The sleek waffle fabric is always crisp and never wrinkly which makes it a great piece for travel and it’s the perfect weight to keep in rotation basically year-round.

Want to celebrate the holiday with a new flame? We’ve got the just the ticket. With its sultry chocolate and strawberry scent and alluring red glass vessel, the limited edition Big Flirt Scented Candle from Snif offers plenty of BVE. (That’s Big Valentine’s Energy.) It’s luxe, long-lasting and sexy AF–all the qualities you’d want in an, um, candle.

If she’s been drowning herself in Victoria’s Secret Bare Vanilla since middle school, it’s time to upgrade. Our suggestion? Phlur’s hypnotic and rich Vanilla Skin Body Mist. Mixed with spicy notes of pink peppercorn and grounding sandalwood, it’s like the go-to gourmand’s sophisticated older sister. Just make sure she’s prepared to tell at least three people a day what scent she’s wearing–because in our experience, everyone asks.

A sweet pair of heart studs are always in style. And ones that don’t poke you in the neck? Well that’s just dreamy.

There’s nothing we love more than solving problems in our sleep–and that’s just what you can expect from Kitsch’s cult-favorite satin pillowcase. The cool and frictionless fabric can help reduce hair frizz and breakage while also keeping skin happier as you snooze.

Is she in the middle of an existential crisis (again)? Or, more likely, is she wondering who in the hell she is besides “The One Who Wipes Butts and Makes Snacks”? Journaling can help with that, but starting with a blank page is just too overwhelming. Instead, the Papier Wellness Journal gives her a guided page to start and end the day, setting intentions and reflecting. It’s a manageable way to develop a habit and she may even emerge a more brilliant badass than she was before. (If that’s even possible.)

Every day can’t be a spa day, but the luxe sleep mask from Dore & Rose can make you feel just as pampered. It’s made from the highest quality mulberry silk and can even double as the perfect headband for your skincare routine. (In fact, we like to think of it as loungewear for your face.) Where other masks can be too squeezy, crease skin or pull and kink your hair, this puffy mask keeps everything smooth and comfortable. (No one likes waking up looking like they spent eight hours face down in a pile of potato chips, right?) The wide band allows it to stay in place while completely blocking the light and offers the added bonus of blocking a bit of sound as well. The best part? It’s totally machine washable!

Bad break up? Ice cream. New job? Ice cream. Girls night to plot a revolution? Ice cream. The theme here is that ice cream is always the answer and sending six pints of Jeni’s to her doorstep is the ultimate act of love. As a near-nightly ice cream indulger, I will solemnly swear that it’s the literal best and this special Valentine’s Day collection hits all the notes. There’s floral and fruity, decadent and chocolatey, and even an elevated vanilla for those more classic palates. Just make sure you get the invite after they arrive.

Not all scrunchies are created equal. In fact, this one is basically fit for a queen–a glamorous, voluminously-locked queen. The oversized, pillowy design is made with 22 Momme silk which is ideal for keeping hair from getting tangled or pulled while you sleep and even better, creates the absolute best wake up hair. It even comes packaged in a luxury gift box ready to gift to your bougiest bestie.

What better way to show your love than with the alchemy of scent? One deep inhale of Yoursy’s expertly-crafted Love blend will ground them in feelings of sensuality, connectedness, and relaxation that can completely shift their sense of wellbeing. It’s made with the highest quality essential oils including ylang ylang, petitgrain, marjoram, pachouli, and sandalwood and packaged in a convenient roll on so she can bring the experience anywhere, anytime.

I admit I’m personally on a real vanilla kick right now, but the thing is, it’s comforting and cozy and frankly (when done right) sexy AF. Case in point, the divine experience that is Cyklar’s Vanilla Verve Sensorial Body Wash. The scent is deep and creamy without being cloying but it’s the silky texture that has me hooked. It’s cleansing and hydrating and just bougie enough to feel special. Consider it the perfect gift for someone with spa dreams but five minute shower realities.

The convenient insulated wine totes from Out of the Woods are a thoughtful way to dress up a gifted bottle and it should be noted that they’re made from “Supernatural Paper.” It’s water-resistant, sustainable, and as durable as your friendship.

I’m not exaggerating when I tell you I’m stone cold obsessed with all things Awe Inspired. Their edgy, eye-catching designs are like modern day amulets that tell the world you’re here to kick ass and take names. Each one has a story to tell and from the gorgeous detailing to the optional mirror-bedecked gift box they’re total stunners. (And, IMO look far more expensive than the price tag!) You seriously can’t go wrong with anything but for this particular occasion, I’d have to suggest the Spiked Heart necklace. With its femme fatale vibes it’s perfect for the friend who’s loving in that you-need-to-earn-it kind of way.

She’s sophisticated, but she’ll still house a bag of Haribo’s when no one’s looking. This V-Day, give her the luxury sweetness she deserves with this almost to pretty to eat flight of champagne-flavored gummies from Sugarfina. The best part? She doesn’t even have to share them with her kids.

Pamper her pout with a lip care duo from Poppy & Pout. The all natural formulas exfoliate, hydrate and protect her lips with a hint of mint and pink grapefruit and the sustainable packaging is almost too pretty to be lost to the bottom of her bag.

Pilates girlies will agree-you can never have enough grip socks. And ones with a sweet reminder across the toes for when the going gets tough? Even better.

Rothy’s Lightweight Tote has us jonesing for the warmer, sunnier days that are just around the corner. Made from their signature fabric that’s spun from plastic bottles it’s the perfect bag to carry on a romantic, oceanside picnic. (But will settle for schlepping kids to school or dashing to the grocery store because #momlife.)

Even in the depths of winter, we’re obsessed with the surfer girl vibes of Aviator Nation. With their on-the-nose heart trucker hat bad hair days, beach days and every day in between she’ll look effortlessly cool (and feel

To know her is to love her–but to really know her you may want to consult her astrological birth chart. This hyper-personalized book uses the map of the stars and planets at the exact moment of birth to give deep insight into who they are and what the future may hold.

Is your Valentine an extra special fashionista? You know, one who’s never easy to wow? We’ve got you. The unforgettable beaded clutches from Island to East Side can be completely customized to create a one-of-kind accessory she’ll treasure for a lifetime. Choose everything from the bead colors and patterns to the font, strap style and even optional inside text. No matter what you decide, it’s guaranteed to be a total stunner!

With their kitschy imagery and quality presentation, Piecework puzzles are a go-to gift. This puzzle is the perfect way to tell her “I love you to pieces.” 1000 pieces, in fact.

Affordable luxury? Yes please. Like their cozy sweaters, Quince’s cashmere wraps are ethically made and will keep her warm and toasty while thinking how lucky she is to have you.

She’s your ride or die. Let her know.

Toss the rubber ducks and floating boats out of the way and reimagine what the word “bathtime” can mean. These bath salts are made with hand-harvested salts from the Southern Dead Sea which infuse the water with vitamins and minerals like magnesium and potassium to relax the body and mind as you soak. And because sexual wellness is at the forefront of every Maude product, they’re free of any icky, irritating ingredients that spell out something the opposite of sexy. No chemicals, additives or synthetic anything.

Cocktails (or mocktails) on your Valentine’s Day menu? The awesome mixes from WithCo make shaking up a signature drink a simple as possible. Simply mix with your alchohol or base of choice (gin is the perfect pair for Bouquet, but it’s equally at home with soda water) and the evening is instantly more fancy.

Make her afternoon matcha aesthetic AF with the Groovy Cup from Poketo. (Even a plain old seltzer feels special in these funky glasses!) The double-walled design is hand-blown from Borosilicate glass making each one one-of-a-kind and more resistant to breakage.

What’s more romantic than keeping someone dry in the rain? And while we do love a gentlemanly offer of a jacket to hold over our heads, a pretty umbrella is even better. Like this floral beauty from Rifle Paper Co. which not only makes a dreary day more colorful, but is compact enough to carry around just in case.

Let me introduce the Quickie Kit from the intimacy experts at Foria. Packed with mini versions of their best-selling essentials, it’s the ideal way to explore using CBD in the bedroom. The inclusion of CBD helps to relax and enhance arousal, and some even report that it helps make sex less painful when battling things like endometriosis and other pelvic and genital pain conditions. (What’s sexier than that?) From relieving tension to increasing blood flow, their Sex Oil, Awaken Arousal Oil and Intimacy suppositories can enliven and electrify your time together–even if you’re squeezing it in during naptime.

Ok, maybe this is sexier than that. Meet the Womanizer Liberty 2. Because of my profession (and who I am as a person), I’ve tested an unholy amount of sex toys over the years. And let me just say, if the words that come out of my mouth when I use this one are any indication, it is the holiest thing I own. I swear I’ve seen colors that don’t exist elsewhere within time and space and the feeling after is nothing short of euphoric. It offers eight different speeds, the lowest of which is pretty tame, the highest I’m not even sure I’ve reached. The bonus? The included cover makes it super discreet and travel-ready and it’s perfectly sized for both solo and partnered seshes.

Infuse date nights with excitement and fresh energy with this fun and beautiful game designed by relationship and intimacy guru Esther Perel. Through prompt cards that set the mood and direction (ex. “Share something crazy”) and story cards that provide the first line of an answer (ex. “A phone number I need to delete…”) you’re guaranteed to learn something new and thrilling no matter how many times you’ve heard their best stories. Get ready for instant memories and enhanced connection.

A rose-filled bouquet is the most V-Day appropriate gift ever, and none are more special than this one. Made solely of 15 iconic David Austin Juliet roses which have been bred to perfection from their abundant petals to their gorgeous peach ombre hue, it’s a romantic and sophisticated stunner.

Minimal but meaningful artwork is a gift everyone gets to enjoy. With a nod to your connection, this simple piece is easy to integrate into almost any decor.

Inspired by traditional Irish Claddagh rings—which symbolize love and friendship–this piece is the perfect gift for a bestie, or yourself. The lay-flat profile means it’s easy to wear even when you’ve got your hands in, well, everything.

Sexual pleasure is about all the sensations, and the Lure Deluxe Intimacy Oil can help to heighten them. The silky soft formula is made with just Organic MCT coconut oil and organically grown, full spectrum CBD which is scent-free and flavorless to use with abandon. It’s perfect for loving (or spicy!) massages and when used in your most intimate areas, it can help keep things lubricated which, let’s be honest, is totally key. The best part? Unlike regular lube which is cold, wet and sticky this is the exact opposite. In fact, the softness it leaves behind rivals any fancy moisturizer!