The Gottman Institute

Co-founded by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, The Gottman Institute's approach to relationship health has been developed from 40 years of breakthrough research with thousands of couples. Get your free copy of the popular guide "7 Signs Your Relationship Will Last" by clicking here.

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The one thing any couple can do for a better connection

Ask what is true about your partner today—not five years ago.

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How complaining—but not criticizing—can help your marriage

Satisfied couples don’t lack things to complain about. They’ve discovered how to complain without criticizing.

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4 ways parents can balance family + couple time

Studies show the amount of fun couples have together is correlated to marital success.

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Why happy couples turn toward each other in times of stress + how to do it

When partners do not choose each other day after day, trust and commitment erode away.

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16 ways for busy parents to fall in love all over again

10. Plan a vacation together—no kids allowed.

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The ‘Golden Rule’ that keeps romance alive for new parents

Tuning in and turning towards each other creates a sense of connection and emotional intimacy.

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Emotionally intelligent husbands are key to a lasting marriage

Make your commitment to your partner stronger than your commitment to winning.